The history of day care is like the history of oysters: once for poor people, now a luxury commodity.

When my toddler’s day care started turning parents away at the door due to staffing shortages, I learned it was owned by private equity — which maximizes enrollment to squeeze profit out of childcare and now owns eight of the 11 largest US day care companies.

A few months ago, I was chatting with the mom of a toddler who is the same age as my daughter. As a toddler who is the same age as my daughter. As tends to happen when parents of young kids get together, the subject of childcare came up. She relayed that she was happy with their current situation — a nanny share with a few other families — and that it was a welcome change from the day care center they had used previously. One day at their former day care, they showed up at the door and were told to leave: the day care center didn’t have enough staff for the day and was at capacity with kids.

My mouth fell open. “You were turned away at the door? For services you paid for? On a day you were supposed to be at work?”

“Yup, that’s exactly what happened,” she said. I relayed that while there were problems with our day care situation — it was expensive, of course, among other things — thankfully nothing like that had occurred in the nine months we’d been there.

I went home later feeling like we had dodged a bullet. My partner and I had looked at that same day care her family had used, even putting in an application, but we ultimately chose a different one. I may have been patting myself on the back a bit, thinking that our intuition about that place had been right. Turns out the joke was on us.

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    It wasn’t until the 1970s, when more middle-class and upper-class women began entering the workforce, that momentum began to build around creating universal, nationally funded childcare programs through the Comprehensive Child Development Act. Richard Nixon vetoed that bill in 1972, stopping the effort in its tracks.

    Republicans fucking up the country as per usual.

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      Believe this shit or not, Matt Gaetz actually stumped for child care reform. Since he was my Congressman, and I hadn’t before heard a single proposal from him to benefit us, mind blown. Of course he was shot down instantly. Broken clock, whatever.

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        Or they run on it and try one bill because they have heard about it from their constituents a lot, but they know it’s going to get shut down immediately and they don’t bother to actually try to push it through.

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          Nah, he was firmly entrenched here, not an election play. It was so weird it really stuck out to me.

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      It’s especially shitty because daycare doesn’t need private equity. The barriers to entry are manageable without six-figure up-front investments, but the leeches have forced their way into every industry, and it’s only going to get worse.

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        Yeah, they have so much money they can apply leverage to force people to sell.

        Like, “oh, look at that, our real estate division bought the property you’re renting for your daycare, and your rent tripled. What’s that? You’ll sell to us now?”

        It’s mafia behavior.

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      I’ll die in my own bed, or, given the current fascist regime in America, with my boots on. Either way, I do not foresee a comfortable end, unless the “boots on” option comes around.

      While we’re at it, I can’t see why more terminal patients don’t go murderbot. If I’m dying horribly, I’m not selling the our little house. It’s all I have to leave my wife and kids, and it ain’t fucking much. I’m doing a little research and murdering as many health care profiteers as I possibly can while I can still hold a battle rifle.

      That’s not BS talk from a young man. I’m 54. Gotta think ahead!

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        Unfortunately your estate would be sued so you probably wouldn’t leave anything to the kids or wife were you to go out in such a conflagaration.

        Further, Knowing a firm death prognosis generally already means you’re limited in many ways time, physically, or just getting affairs in order and trying to spend quality time with family and friends.

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          probably

          Meh. Better than “certainly” I guess. But I admit I had not thought of that scenario.

          Anyway, you’re also right on the prognosis timing. I have my affairs mostly in order, better than most I’d guess, just need to remind my wife where to find the text file with the goodies.

          OTOH, AR-15 style weapons are insanely easy to handle, even for the infirm! PRO TIP: Red-dot sight, point and click interface.

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    PE recently finally got the wheel at SW airlines; all the things that made it different for the last 70 years are gone. Seatback power that has been promised for years is still absent yet strangely, paid assigned seating was quickly rolled out in just months. Any number of public companies tell the same story. They rip any meat off the bone and , as the articles note, walk away from the ashes.

    Failed retailers, hospitals, daycares, they cannot and do not care due to their charter and no regulations have limited the danger and chaos they foist upon those with no options but to deal with them.

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    Ex and I worked two OK paying jobs. Daycare? LOL no. We paid a lady down the street to watch the kids, as did a few others. Only sane way to get by.

    Been thinking about doing this at our house. Wife has a 4-year degree from the Philippines, and 4 dozen or so continuing ed certs, on early childhood education. And she’s masterful at it. Kids over there are reading 4-letter words at 3 and starting basic arithmetic at 4. No shit. This isn’t some “tiger mom” shit, it’s simply how they roll.

    I’ve watched videos of her home classes. Made me want to scream and rage an cry that American kids aren’t getting such basic education. Fuck me. Now I’m mad again.

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      This. Childcare is expensive because our economic systems and low morality see them as commodities. Not even as a true future asset. Just something that needs to be born, used, then discarded. (after having 2.1 kids themselves of course.)

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    So many things that were available to previous generations are turning into luxuries. Housing, affordable childcare, education…

    Even simple therapy services are going to end up being a luxury for the rich once Medicaid is cut.

    Every new thing just deepens the despair.

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      My Greatest Gen mom had a “mammy” to raise the kids in the 60s. No shit. On my dad’s income they could have a black lady to help around the house. And mom didn’t work a job.

      One might think dad was rich. Nope. Came home from WWII, got an engineering degree on the GI Bill, went to work at the bottom. Free education drove unprecedented prosperity. Imagine that.

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    Realistically, how can you tell a business is owned by private equity? It’s not like most places advertise that.

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      Jacobin probably employs someone who can write English professionally, but if punctuation threatens the mind palace then there wasn’t much hope for the article to convey anything begin with.