I’m starting to think that I do not, and I suppose it will be one of the greatest tests I face. My partner is convinced that he will do anything for me, simply because “he loves me”, whereas I continue to have boundaries. They’re a bit of a hopeless romantic, honestly, and it seems like they’re trying to recreate a teenage-type love they never had.

I thought I was liked for more than my body, but that seems to be the main attraction here :/ And they almost seem offended when I don’t show the same level of interest in theirs and try to convince me to get on viagra or something (which is completely missing the point).

  • DisabledAceSocialist [comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    19 days ago

    No I don’t believe in unconditional love, and please don’t let this person pressure you into taking things you don’t want to take. Especially when it’s not even for your benefit but for theirs. If he loved you he wouldn’t pressure you or risk your health for his benefit.