• ChonkyOwlbear@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    That would require a bit of self- analysis on their parts. I think it’s more likely that they kinda like it and are scared of what that means.

    • Washedupcynic@lemmy.ca
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      3 days ago

      Agree with you on that part also; because it’s all one way or the other to them, and they don’t get that sexuality is a spectrum. In the discussions I’ve had with straight men, I’ve always said, if you don’t agree with homosexuality, you can just say no thanks when a homosexual asks you out. And it’s like their minds are blown by the idea of another man respecting boundaries.

      • JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        3 days ago

        In my experiences, there’s a large portion that like it and their only hangup is their in-group treating them gay for finding out

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          9 hours ago

          Fuck that noise, I brag about that shit. I’m at that age where even flirting is starting to get rare, so actually getting hit on is something I will be talking about for days.