It has PLUMMETED past 35. In my 20s I’d give people the benefit of the doubt too much, try and justify their behaviour etc so I was being “fair”. Now I prioritise being fair to me, and don’t put up with shit
Identical arc here, right down to the decision age. Now my policy online is “block early, block often” with a hair trigger and in real life, bullshit is rewarded with “I see,” followed by me turning to someone else and starting a conversation with them, ignoring the bullshitter.
It has PLUMMETED past 35. In my 20s I’d give people the benefit of the doubt too much, try and justify their behaviour etc so I was being “fair”. Now I prioritise being fair to me, and don’t put up with shit
Same! I lost all patience for people’s bullshit.
Identical arc here, right down to the decision age. Now my policy online is “block early, block often” with a hair trigger and in real life, bullshit is rewarded with “I see,” followed by me turning to someone else and starting a conversation with them, ignoring the bullshitter.