I message my wife when I get to work and when I’m leaving. So somewhere between an hour and 7 or 8 depending on exactly when in my day I get nabbed for her to notice.
My work colleagues would probably try to call me if I didn’t turn up (I’ve fallen off my bike before so they might suspect that) but I don’t think they would put out a police report immediately if I just didn’t turn up one morning.
Bohemian Rhapsody. Every time.
I have a rough idea of my outgoings each month as compared to my income and I just make sure I don’t spend more than I earn at least most of the time.
My wife occasionally sits down and does a proper budget so we can move around recurring payments and make sure we keep things fair.
It’s a lot better than other electric toothbrushes whilst retaining waterproofing.
Yup, you need to send it back to them but for a few quid (or included if you have their replacement head subscription) they will change the battery for you.
We have recently gotten ourselves some SURI toothbrushes and they are eco friendly, repairable, the heads are recyclable/ biodegradable. They also give a better clean than my old oral b electric. Quieter too. Highly recommend.
For car camping a double roll mat and double sleeping bag has made a world of difference especially for my wife who’s a cold sleeper, sharing a bag let’s her steal my warmth. We’ve had a Vango comfort roll mat for a good few years now and it doesn’t pack small but it’s nearly as comfy as my mattress at home.
Wildsea is great, the setting is wonderful and I’m really enjoying the mechanics so far. We’re 4 sessions in and have played through the introductory adventure. It’s a very solar punk hopeful setting (at least how I’m running it) which we all need more of at the minute I think.
I’m looking forward to getting the books for slugblaster, I’ve had a read of the PDF and it sounds like a lot of fun.
Is there anything you’re particularly interested in from the bundle?
If I didn’t already have most of the games I want from this bundle I’d have got it in a second. It’s got some really excellent systems there.
Playing Wildsea at the minute and totally loving it.
Just finished a Spire campaign. Good system fascinating setting.
Nights black agents it’s pretty cool and has a co-op series for it.
Slugblaster sounds like great fun and is probably my next game after Wildsea, I’m waiting for my books to arrive in print.
Vassen has some excellent art and lore but I’ve not run it.
Masks has an excellent reputation and has been on my list to get for a long time.
Some really strong game systems in there.
Tunic is amazing. I wouldn’t say souls-like necessarily, more old school Zelda. Though the final boss is nails and very souls.
Either a whole load of books, fiction, tabletop RPG sci-fi. I would also need to buy more bookshelves to put these on.
A decent upgrade to my computer, maybe a new graphics card.
A sword or two, some better protective kit for sparring.
In summary of the nature article:
Listen and be interested in why they hold those opinions, use motivational interviewing techniques (I explain this as Inception, trying to get the patient to have the ideas) and provide solid evidence, be realistic about data and certainty, ie the MMR vaccine is safe (and doesn’t cause autism) the COVID vaccine has less data as it’s newer, but it is still safer for the vast majority of people than COVID.
Seconded, I’ve run the introductory module another bug hunt and loved the system and the module.
I use a tablet or two as GM my players are all paper exclusive though. I’d have no problems with people using electronics at the table though provided they were paying attention and not being disruptive.
Honestly other than a little pang when interacting with my nephew’s of am I missing out, it’s mostly positive.
We have time and money to do more of the things we enjoy, not that there’s much of that even without kids when you factor in 2 full time jobs.
Honestly one of the big reasons we decided to not have kids. With some budgeting we have a good quality of life as we both earn a good wage. Though we still have to be careful. Adding kids to that mix would mean we would struggle at times and have to cut back on the niceties to keep food and bills paid.
It is a depressing reality of our capitalist society.
34 male. Grew up with 3 siblings. Always wanted kids when I was younger. As I got older, met my wife and started living together we had lots of discussions about kids. She was never really interested in them and the whole pregnancy and giving birth thing terrified her.
On lots of reflection I realised that I was only interested in kids because of family and societal pressure, I think the world is over populated and generally heading downhill (fascism is massively on the rise globally, global warming, various wars) so decided that I didn’t want to bring a child into that.
There’s plenty of children in the foster system so if we change our minds later we can adopt and give a good home to a child that needs one.
This isn’t a question random people on the internet can answer easily, but I can offer you some things to think about which might help.
I’m in a medical field in the UK and do some interviewing so I’d be asking you why you want to pick a job with long hours, bad pay (comparatively for the responsibility), poor working conditions? Medicine is not a job for people who want to breeze through or are just a little bit interested in biology and people.
I’d recommend you get some work experience, health care assistant jobs are commonplace in the UK and a great way to see if medicine is right for you, universities here look on it very favourably as well. If you can do a 12 hour shift where you are exposed to blood, poo, urine and vomit and still want to go back for more then I’d say medicine is probably an ok field for you.
What are your goals? Helping people is a common response in medical interviews but you can help in lots of ways, law like you’ve already been considering, engineering, accounting etc. What do you get out of medicine that you can’t get elsewhere?
Do you want to make lots of money and have an easier life, don’t pick medicine, pick something else.
What’s your plan for winter?
For me realising that I care for people (as a job) and if I don’t get it right my patients could get hurt means I’m much more likely to ask for help for anything from little simple things to bigger my mental health is suffering and I need more support from all aspects of my life.
Asking for help isn’t easy, everyone wants to be strong and self sufficient, remember we are a social species and evolved to work in groups and help each other. Think how you feel when you can help someone or if you’ve been asked to help and remember that when you seek help.