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  • I think the disconnect here is between objective and subjective meaning. In an infinite multiverse, ‘reality’ isn’t a singular objective truth—it’s a collection of subjective experiences. But that doesn’t erase meaning; it just means meaning is something we assign, not something inherent.

    You’re right that if every possible outcome exists, no single timeline is ‘objectively’ special. But in fiction (and arguably in reality), what matters is the perspective we focus on. A story isn’t weakened by the existence of other timelines—it’s strengthened by the fact that, out of infinite possibilities, this particular one is being told. The act of choosing a narrative is what gives it weight.

    It’s the difference between nihilism (‘nothing matters, so why care?’) and absurdism (‘nothing matters* inherently, so we get to decide what does’). A multiverse doesn’t have to make things meaningless—it can highlight how rare and significant certain choices are, precisely because most versions of a person might not make them (e.g., Invincible).

    I get the sense you’re resistant to this because it feels like it undermines objective meaning. But what if meaning was never objective to begin with?


  • Ah yes, the galaxy-brain take: ‘Vote count alone determines legitimacy.’ By that logic, the Electoral College is fake news, GOP voter suppression doesn’t matter, and Russia’s 2016 interference was irrelevant because ‘Trump got more votes in the right states.’ But sure, pretend the DNC’s thumb on the scale had zero effect on turnout, messaging, or voter access. Totally normal democracy.

    Imagine a kids’ boxcar race where one competitor had:

    • A professional engineer for a dad who designed the car
    • Custom CNC-machined parts and high-end materials
    • A team of adults helping them at every step

    Meanwhile, the other kid:

    • Built their car alone with basic tools
    • Was actively discouraged from getting outside help
    • Had race officials constantly changing rules to favor the first kid

    Then, when the second kid lost, people said: ‘Well, the first kid just built a faster car, we don’t see a problem here.’

    That’s what the 2016 primary was like. The DNC didn’t stuff ballots, but they rigged the game long before voting started. Through media collusion, debate manipulation, and voter suppression. And when sued, their lawyers literally argued, ‘We have no obligation to run a fair primary.’

    So yes, Clinton got more votes. AFTER the DNC tilted the scales. Pretending that’s ‘democracy’ is like saying the boxcar race was fair because they allowed to poor kid to participate to begin with.

    You’re either incapable of grasping systemic bias or pretending it doesn’t exist to ‘win’ an argument. Either way, I’ve already explained why ‘Clinton got more votes’ doesn’t absolve the DNC’s misconduct. Repeating yourself won’t change that. Have a day.


  • The DNC didn’t ‘rig’ the primary in the sense of changing vote totals, but they did actively tilt the scales through media collusion (leaked emails showed DNC officials mocking Sanders and strategizing against him), debate scheduling (minimizing exposure), and voter suppression tactics (e.g., purging independents in closed primaries). The lawsuit revealed the DNC’s lawyers openly argued in court that they had no obligation to run a fair process.

    That said, yes, Clinton won more votes, but the system was structurally biased from the start. The real question is whether a truly neutral primary would have had a different outcome, given Sanders’ momentum and Clinton’s weaknesses (which absolutely contributed to Trump’s win).

    Bernie lost, he wasn’t popular enough. Get over it.

    Telling people to ‘get over it’ ignores why this still matters. The DNC’s actions in 2016 (and again in 2020, with the sudden coalescence around Biden after South Carolina) reinforced the perception that the party prioritizes control over democracy. That disillusionment cost them key voters in swing states. Which is how we got Trump.


  • Wow, that’s an incredibly insightful answer. I suppose I never considered the scale of it. Most are fairly bare bones, but you are right, there are so many users and repeat users that it would scale very poorly.

    You’re also right on the social media part of it. There kindof needs to be secondary engagement thing to attract and support the community.

    Always felt that dating apps were a little too ?accesible? That is to say that they are exceedingly easily flooded by no or low effort profiles, abandoned and duplicate profiles. Especially by desperate men who are completely undiscerning and undereducated (consent, sex, sexuality, etc…).

    I feel like there should be engagement/social/education tiers that grant more access to more features. Like literally give points if you can pass tests on consent, relationships, kink, whatever. Get social points from good engagement and behavior. These don’t show your profile more or less, but like if the medium has NSFW features, forums, criteria/location filtering it gives access to them based on community trust and such. Maybe offer a paid shortcut, but have that declared on their profile somehow.

    Could be nice. But I’d also probably have the swiping style app be accessory to a more traditional forum.




  • I’m just so fucking pissed that Trump keeps pulling his fucking punches. He’s made so many missteps only to walk them back at the last minute. Still fucking horrible, still hurting people, but avoiding the vast majority of the actual impact and lethality of his decisions.

    Tariffs being example A, B, C and D.

    I do NOT want prices to skyrocket, I do not want people to suffer, I do not want a fucking civil war. But holy shit. You can’t play stupid chicken as the president and continuously get away with saying “oops” sorry someone else ruined the sick flip I was going to do over and over.

    If he’d been forced to commit, he’d likely already be dead or out of office.

    I’m so fucking exhausted.




  • I wonder [not to give him any credit] if DJT would be a better president if he were surrounded by actual decent people that were earnest/honest. It feels like it could be in the realm of possibility that he’s treating the Ukraine/Russia conflict the way he has simply because the people around him are only giving him a specific narrative surrounding it. Either intentionally, incidentally, due to incompetence or sycophantic attempts to “please” trump.

    Maybe this is the first time getting it from Ukraine’s point of view, unfiltered.

    Doesn’t change/nor justify his shitty behavior, but… it makes a kind of sense.



  • You’re approaching this discussion from a place of certainty, but the reality of biology, language, and human variation is more complex than the rigid model you’re presenting.

    A few key points:

    1. If sex is strictly XX = woman and XY = man, how do you explain the people who don’t fit that?

    1 in 50 people has a variation of sex development (VSD). That’s not an anomaly, but a substantial population.

    Genetic chimerism, which is rarely tested for, suggests as many as 12% of people have mixed chromosomal expressions—that’s 3 in every 25 people who do not neatly fit XX or XY.

    Any woman who has ever had a child is a genetic chimera, because she retains some of her child’s DNA, meaning many women carry male DNA within their bodies.

    If sex were as simple as XX/XY, these biological realities wouldn’t exist. But they do, and they complicate the notion that sex is an unchangeable binary.


    1. If hormones don’t affect biological sex, why do they permanently alter the body?

    Puberty is a hormonal process. It reshapes bodies, voices, muscle structure, brain development, and reproductive function.

    If sex were truly “fixed,” introducing testosterone or estrogen wouldn’t fundamentally change these same traits in adults. But it does.

    So which is it? If hormones don’t influence sex, then puberty doesn’t matter either. If they do, then transitioning alters biological characteristics in ways that contradict your claims.


    1. If language is purely “natural evolution,” why has it been deliberately changed by societies and governments throughout history?

    Modern Italian was not a natural evolution—it was imposed on Italy’s diverse dialects by the state.

    After WWI, German was banned in schools and public institutions in parts of the U.S.

    The French government has actively tried to suppress regional languages like Breton and Occitan to enforce a singular linguistic identity.

    These weren’t “organic” shifts—they were deliberate policy changes. If language only changes on its own, these documented historical events should not have been possible.

    If entire nations have altered their linguistic structures through conscious intervention, why would the evolution of gendered language be any different?


    1. You argue that intersex people are “rare,” but rarity does not erase reality.

    Left-handed people make up about 10% of the population—a minority, but we don’t dismiss their existence because they aren’t the majority.

    The number of people with red hair is lower than the percentage of intersex people, yet no one claims red hair is “unnatural.”

    Statistical frequency doesn’t determine what is real. Something doesn’t need to be common to be biologically significant.


    1. The pattern in your responses suggests you are more emotionally invested in this topic than you claim.

    You’ve repeatedly expressed personal relief that trans people are not common in your area. That’s not a neutral scientific observation—that’s a personal bias.

    You dismiss contradictory biological realities by calling them “defects” rather than engaging with what they actually mean.

    You insist this discussion is about “logic,” yet when presented with genetic, medical, and linguistic evidence, you shift the argument rather than addressing the inconsistencies.

    If you want to engage with this topic honestly, you’ll have to account for these contradictions instead of sidestepping them. If your argument is strong, it should be able to withstand scrutiny. If it can’t, then maybe the issue isn’t with the facts—it’s with the assumptions you started with.