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Nu er jeg selv en sucker for lidt mere komplicerede spil, men det er ikke altid let at få venner/familie til at være med til dem.
Så jeg vil give et skud ud til en af mine yndlings “simple” kortspil som alle kan være med til Don’t drop the soap Hvis jeg husker rigtigt mener jeg det er en dansker der har lavet det også.
Men reglerne er simple og den første der spiller et sæbe kort taber. Så spillene er hurtige og man får ofte et godt grin imens! Stor anbefaling herfra
I can see you have already gotten a lot of good advice, but I’m still going to share my story
For a man, getting a child is boring as fuck the first half a year. That’s just how it’s. Most mom’s essentially gets a head start on bonding with the kid by being pregnant. And its super normal not feeling anything, it just takes time. Just do your best getting as much skin-to-skin contact, I think it helps with the bonding. And its super important for the child, so win-win. If you do it mostly while they’re sleeping, you can watch tv, look at your phone. And if you have one of those gaming chairs that recline all the way back, you can even play computer if you’re into that.
Then we wanted another kid, and after like half a year my wife got pregnant again, and we’re where super glad. But I think a couple of months before the kid came out, I got postpartum depression. And I fucking hated my own kid, I could not stand her. And wanted nothing to do with her. I half remember not wanting anything to do with the baby, but honestly everything is a haze from that period.
In the end, I think after half a year, my wife gave me a ultimatum, either I seek professional help or we breakup and I leave for good. And that was the kicker for me half realising I needed help. Lucky at the time, I was 24 years old. And therapy is free when you’re under 25, as we had no money.
I think I went to therapy for a couple of months, and luckily I was slowly getting better.
Now it’s about 3 years later, I don’t have an inch of depression anymore, and I love my kids more than anything.
Last month we just got our third kid, a now it’s way easier bonding with her, because I already know what it entails. But it’s still true, it’s boring as fuck, she just lays there, and don’t do much of anything.
But every month something new happens, and it’s gets just a little better.
My other kids are now 3 and 5, and they’re the most fun I have ever had with them. I pretend to be s monster and I chase them around, and they running and screaming for their life, while laughing their ass of! it’s honestly one of the best feeling and I love it.
But I won’t pretend everything is good. We still have to raise them, and it’s still hard work everyday! And a lot of time, it’s not fun getting angry at your kids, because they straight up just don’t listen to you.
All I wanted to say, at first, it just seems like ekstra work and it’s! But over the next couple years, when they start becoming an actual human, and you can start playing with them. That’s when all the work starts paying off. And Luckily time goes fast when you get kids, almost too fast. And now my oldest is starting school next year, and I already feel like I’m not ready for her to grow up that much!
It will definitely get better, it just takes time, and everything you’re feeling, is valid and normal. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!
And please just ask if you would like to know anything, or want me to elaborate, if I have explained something badly. I wrote everything on mobile, so sry for formatting or spelling mistakes.
Drigo@sopuli.xyzto Forskning og Videnskab@feddit.dk•Nobel-stjerne og Crispr-moder: Vi kan ikke komme uden om gen-saksen i fremtidens mad | Ingeniøren2·1 month agoHørte den her podcast hvor Cleo Abrams interviewet Dr. Jennifer Doudna https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0OXaanDHENI. Super spændende, og den podcast fokuserer mest på alt det positive som teknologien evt vil bringe i fremtiden. Især når vi begynder at komme ind i modificering af mennesker, synes jeg personligt at det begynder at blive rigtig interessant.
Men har super meget “Gattaca” vibes over sig, så håber vi kan undgå sådan en fremtid
Drigo@sopuli.xyzto NonCredibleDefense@lemmy.world•GENERAL! Our base is under attack!English4·1 month agoAnd this exact reason is why I play with limited super weapons against my friends haha
Its too long ago since I have pirated anything, don’t know remember how, also don’t wanna download malware lol
It’s enabled
Many games people play, like counter-strike, League of Legends etc is all games you can’t pause. That’s really where the problem comes. If you kid wakes up, you have to leave the game, which sucks and even have penalties. So most choose to not play, because of that and watch tv series instead.
I can’t watch Disney plus in the browser on Linux, which kinda sucks. Fuck Disney, but also, anybody knows how to fix it? I tried changing the user agent override, but that didn’t work.
Drigo@sopuli.xyztoNyheder@feddit.dk•Ekspert: I nat tog Israel det sidste skridt mod en reel krig med Iran4·1 month agoTilgængæld leverer usa så ikke droner til Ukraine, men til Israel i stedet for.
We don’t all have shitty neighbors. Some are actually pretty nice. And I’m sure the neighbor asked permission first.
Drigo@sopuli.xyzto News@lemmy.world•Toxic truth? The cookware craze redefining ‘ceramic’ and ‘nontoxic’1·2 months agoI make sure the pannis always hot first, but maybe I could be using more oil, I generally try to use as little as possible as I don’t wanna over do it.
And maybe I should get some new spatulas aswell. These I have are some shitty old plastic ones
Drigo@sopuli.xyzto News@lemmy.world•Toxic truth? The cookware craze redefining ‘ceramic’ and ‘nontoxic’1·2 months agoI might be using too little fats like oil/butter, but I really try to not over use it.
Most foods cook fine, but I especially have trouble with scrambled eggs. But I guess it’s a “wet” good like your hash browns. Maybe I should buy a different kind of pan for that
Drigo@sopuli.xyzto News@lemmy.world•Toxic truth? The cookware craze redefining ‘ceramic’ and ‘nontoxic’4·2 months agoI also have a le creuset enameled cast iron, but for some reason I don’t think I’m using it correctly. I find too often that food is sticking to it. I have tried lots of different things, but non seem to work. Honestly I think the only thing left to try is using a bigger stove maybe? But thats not so easy haha
But what are you doing, how are you using it?
Drigo@sopuli.xyztoNyheder@feddit.dk•Dette land [Bhutan] vægter lykke højere end økonomi - og håber, at vi andre snart gør det samme2·2 months agoFandme også surt at være verdens eneste Co2-negative land. Og så ligge lige i midten af de mest forurenede lande, som Bangladesh, Indien og Kina
Drigo@sopuli.xyztoNyheder@feddit.dk•Skole på Frederiksberg åbner studieretning for unge med høj IQ [120+]6·2 months agoDen her video af Veratasium, synes jeg gav mig en bedre forståelse af hvad “IQ” tests faktisk er. Jeg havde også selv opfattelsen at man ikke rigtigt kan bruge den til noget, men der er mere til det end man lige går og tror https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkKPsLxgpuY
Drigo@sopuli.xyzto Technology@lemmy.zip•Volvo EX90’s Lidar Sensor Will Fry Your Phone’s CameraEnglish1·2 months agoIf you go to luminartech own website, on the home page, if you scroll abit down, they have a LiDAR 1550nm vs 905nm section and a downloadable 7 page pdf where you can read about it. It’s of course biased because they themselves are making it, so bear that in mind.
Drigo@sopuli.xyzto Technology@lemmy.zip•Volvo EX90’s Lidar Sensor Will Fry Your Phone’s CameraEnglish19·2 months agoThe company specifically called out “close-ups” as the problem, meaning that our phones should be safe with distant shots
Also I think they’re using lidar with a frequency of 1550 nanometer which can’t penetrate the eye or cause damage.
I had a friend that went to the store at midnight to get the Nintendo he pre ordered… Some people just don’t care unfortunately