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Cake day: October 28th, 2020

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  • I agree with some parts of what you say, but this:

    They are still perpetrators and wrongdoers but they are also victims and have had wrong done to them.

    Feels like whitewashing criminals. Yes the guys may not have had the resources nor the wake up call before joining but so what? does that excuse any of them from going half a world away to participate in a genocide? or more recently does any of that excuse them from killing innocent fishermen in the coasts of Venezuela/Colombia? fuck no.



  • Be a bro to him. My lil bro had a short lived “right winger phase”, he was going on the South American manosphere rabbit hole, I started spending more time with him and softly correcting his ‘positions’ never letting go of harmful bullshit but always trying to listening to him and letting him speak his mind. Then college started and he met his new friends (male and female) and now he’s well adjusted (or at least not manosphere-adjusted).

    So basically include him in social activities, call bullshit where bullshit should be called, trust him and let the normal socialization hammer down the worst of his positions.