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  • i believe you. also, my great uncle has smoked since he was 13 and he’s now 86 and is still alive

    seriously, though, if you do everything right, arch is a great system. it is really well put together and very stable all things considered. the problem is the “doing everything right” part. what happened to op is pretty common if you stop reviewing your updates one by one for a week or two. if you’re used to that, then arch is perfect. otherwise, it’s a chore










  • the retweeter thinks that ADHD people are paralyzed by absolutely anything. People saying it’s their motivation are motivated by not wanting to be one of those ND people.

    makes sense

    but it’s kinda out of our control, though, isn’t it? we can try our best to do shit, but sometimes we can’t do shit, and that will be it. beating ourselves up over it does nothing to help. in my case, simply accepting that sometimes i won’t be able to do shit is actually what helped me the most



  • the op is kinda silly, but i am strongly suspicious of anyone who complains about people that supposedly “blame everything on their diagnosis”. more often than not it’s just a neurotypical that hates us and thinks adhd is an excuse for laziness, which i believe is 100% the case for the rt. adhders who don’t take responsibility for their problems do exist, but i’d rather err to the side of not harming us any more than the neurotypicals already do

    and it’s super weird to me that someone would be motivated by someone who thinks your diagnosis is fake