jay (he/they)
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jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•trouble with bf??English1·20 hours agothank you so much!! I’ll see how it goes :)
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•trouble with bf??English1·22 hours agothey’re very conservative and transphobic too so they see me as a woman, and they think all amab people will do sexual things to afab people even IN PUBLIC
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•trouble with bf??English1·22 hours agohe thinks “oh, this is the way i am” and won’t do anything. he’s said he wanted to break up many times but then he doesn’t because then he won’t have a partner (obviously)
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•is there a community for claymation or should i make one?English1·24 hours agothe claymation? clay of course! :)
the community, on lemmy
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•trouble with bf??English1·24 hours agothanks
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•would this OC be considered a "tsundere"?English3·1 day agoit’s a character they made, like in a story, not an imaginary friend
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•trouble with bf??English2·1 day agothanks so much! hopefully he can learn to fully love me
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•trouble with bf??English2·1 day agomy friend’s mom is the same way afaik. i was barely even allowed to hang out with guys at age like 8 for that reason. thank you so much :)
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•trouble with bf??English2·1 day agothank you! this helps, we could try couples therapy but i can’t go with my family because they have an intense fear of me being SA’d so i can’t even be around amab people in their presence
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•trouble with bf??English1·1 day agofair enough
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Relationship Advice@lemmy.world•trouble with bf??English2·1 day agothank you so much :) idk why he’s like this
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Transmasc@lemmy.blahaj.zone•did anyone else as a kid feel like they were the wrong gender?English2·2 days agomine is very supportive of lgbt! i can talk to her!
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Transmasc@lemmy.blahaj.zone•did anyone else as a kid feel like they were the wrong gender?English2·2 days agoooooo okkkk! maybe i should explore transness with mine!
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Transmasc@lemmy.blahaj.zone•did anyone else as a kid feel like they were the wrong gender?English4·2 days agooooo okay!!! are you genderfluid perhaps? not trying to label, just curious
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Ask Me Anything@lemmy.ca•transmasc, felt dysphoria ever since around age 7-8. ama.English2·2 days agoim better now, i’ve learned to bear being a “girl” especially with a transphobic family
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Transmasc@lemmy.blahaj.zone•did anyone else as a kid feel like they were the wrong gender?English3·2 days agoi’ve grown out of the phase, but i thought all girls cared about was makeup and hated sports and videogames. plus, girls also tended to bully me more for being autistic whereas boys didn’t judge me as much so long as i could play catch with a football.
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Transmasc@lemmy.blahaj.zone•did anyone else as a kid feel like they were the wrong gender?English4·2 days agoit definitely could have been a past life. by the way, what’s your gender/pronouns now? i’m transmasc, he/they.
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•is there a community for claymation or should i make one?English4·2 days agofan discussions
jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOPto Transmasc@lemmy.blahaj.zone•i don't get it. [Rant]English1·2 days agothank you :)
i liked videogames and wrestling