meler [she/her, pup/pup's]

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Cake day: August 29th, 2025

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  • lamenting cringe culture and societal expectations with regards to puppygirls

    I send one (1) emoji in a discord server and all of a sudden I’m cringe. It was this one

    I have these saved to my phone and used one in a dm with a guy and he said they were cute and I agreed. This was like several months ago.

    Yesterday I’m in the discord server and same guy makes a reference to that and calls me a doggirl and I respond with the above emoji. Maybe I misread and I was being made fun of idk. And then a few people made things weird.

    This group of friends respects my gender identity and that’s very nice. But they are all so freaking affected by cringe culture and it frustrates me. Why do you give a shit what’s cringe and what’s not?

    I cannot wrap my mind around what makes it wrong for me to use these emoji. And I cannot wrap my mind around what would make it so wrong if I wanted to be a dog girl. Fuck cringe like actually. Why should I care?

    And as a matter of fact, it’s been rolling in my head since I just joined this site and after yapping with lilypad about its perspective I was already considering much more than I usually do this past week. And now this happens in discord.

    The only prerequisite to being a pup girl is wanting to be, yeah? Fuck it I might as well see what it’s like on a site that isn’t gonna call me cringe for it.