if you’re on your home network the address will be the IP address and, if you’re not using a reverse proxy, the port the app runs on.

with reverse proxy: http/s://192.168.8.2 or whatever without: http/s://<IP address>:3000 or whatever the port is

I try to have 3 places in mind for a change of scenery, and if there’s something going on at at least one spot, that can take the pressure off of talking. i try to sit next to the person, like at a bar top, instead of across because that just feels like a job interview or something.

aside from that, engaging conversation. Probe for interest and if they reciprocate, then you can go a bit further until they don’t or you’re making out.

funny thing though, I started planning some of my outings with friends like I was doing a date. Instead of just going to the bar and “yyyyup”-ing for a couple hours, I try to find a shoe or something going on and then change locations to something else interesting. By the end my buds are commenting about how much fun they had.

so plan the date around interesting things or environments, or just something going on or something to look at. Then just have fun and relax.

Also, I read something from one of the old dating sites where they said that a sushi date is 27% more likely to get a second date. All of my sushi dates have gotten second dates.

filled! I’m looking forward to the results!

if this pic were me, that’d be the biggest pizza I’d have hauled on that bike

the s&p is an index weighted to match the top 500 companies, so the bigger companies get more money put in to their stocks. if most companies aren’t doing great and a few tech ones are “holding up the market”, then most of the money in your s&p indeed will be with them

i grew up in church, this is part of the curriculum

my low effort contribution

Luna oi is a Vietnamese YouTuber who does a good job at explaining these definitions. This video is about dialectical and historical materialism, but she explains the base and superstructure pretty well. https://youtu.be/HAEgTPK-oiU

it’s for a lefty podcast that focuses more on education about socialism and the nature of capitalism. one of the hosts also has the second thought and first thought YouTube channels

This hasn’t been implemented yet, right?

I really loved this read. thank you for sharing!

this was a fun read! I haven’t done much web UI in years, so it was nice to learn about some of the new, nice things that are available. i don’t think I’d remember some of the more advanced stuff though.

I can’t

Cloudflare tunnels - it used to be dynamic dns, but the ISP blocked ports 80/443, so I switched to tunnels.
External DNS on the Gl-Inet router, included with the product
Goodcloud, from Gl-Inet (included and really nice to have another way to get to it)

for the home self-hosting, that’s pretty much it.

For the (coming soon TM) fediverse apps in Keyboard Vagabond, add in S3, cloudflare CDN

I appreciate the context :)

omg i never picked up on that

I totally didn’t use Apple’s permission system to disable (not crowd strike, something similar) because it was breaking everything. In my hypothetical defense, everyone said that rollout was a disaster.

dynamic SQL. I remember those days. I once got criticized by colleagues for “breaking” a dynamic SQL search query - you know the one - because I realized that it wasn’t building most of the query. I have no idea how it worked, but I made it put out actually valid SQL and it took forever. I forget if we rolled that back. We were using MS TFS, so probably not haha

He did also notice that the planets didn’t move quite exactly as he predicted and said “well, God must keep them in place”

I think it’s worth a shot. If it doesn’t work out, you can go back