Linux and Windows have grown by stunning leaps and bounds over the years. So great to have such solid operating systems, but…
Linux absolutely sucks if you’re not a nerd. Sorry, I spit truth. I’ve tried a dozen distros as daily drivers over the last 15 years. Always had to fiddle and learn. Windows 10 & 11 work right out the box, every time.
I’m not totally ignorant! I’ve spun dozens of Linux servers, my VPN is on Debian server. If fact, just now realized it was still running my internet, and I haven’t logged into it in a few years. Rock solid.
So the question would be more to the point if we asked, “What is blocking normal people from making the move?”
To counter my own point, I used to make “little old lady” laptops and PCs for people who were too broke to get a new machine or pay me to fix Windows. I’d take their crap laptop/box, add whatever RAM I had on hand, SSD a must, load Linux Lite. Show them how to access the internet and their email, DONE. Never once had a call back. It just fucking worked.
Here’s the key! Listening you nerds? I never once told them they were running Linux, never explained the concept of an OS, nada, STFU with your evangelizing. I merely handed their machine back in a working state, with minimal instruction.
The Year of the Linux Desktop may never hit. Most people don’t use desktops outside their job and Microsoft has a lock on compatibility and business use cases. Can you imagine any sort of Linux Active Directory? LOL, hell no, what a scattered ecosystem.
Been reading Vonnegut again. Every tried him? Nothing Earth shattering in his works, but he examines what it means to be a human, and mostly concludes there ain’t much meaning.
Sound depressing? Far from it! Vonnegut exposes the bullshit in our wider societal and political systems, but he brings it home to our individual lives. Slaughter House 5 is his most well known work, and not to be missed!
Been thinking about his thoughts on how we’re suffering from not having larger families.
“OK, now let’s have some fun. Let’s talk about sex. Let’s talk about women. Freud said he didn’t know what women wanted. I know what women want. They want a whole lot of people to talk to. What do they want to talk about? They want to talk about everything.
What do men want? They want a lot of pals, and they wish people wouldn’t get so mad at them.
Why are so many people getting divorced today? It’s because most of us don’t have extended families anymore. It used to be that when a man and a woman got married, the bride got a lot more people to talk to about everything. The groom got a lot more pals to tell dumb jokes to.
A few Americans, but very few, still have extended families. The Navahos. The Kennedys.
But most of us, if we get married nowadays, are just one more person for the other person. The groom gets one more pal, but it’s a woman. The woman gets one more person to talk to about everything, but it’s a man.
When a couple has an argument, they may think it’s about money or power or sex, or how to raise the kids, or whatever. What they’re really saying to each other, though, without realizing it, is this: “You are not enough people!”
I met a man in Nigeria one time, an Ibo who has six hundred relatives he knew quite well. His wife had just had a baby, the best possible news in any extended family.
They were going to take it to meet all its relatives, Ibos of all ages and sizes and shapes. It would even meet other babies, cousins not much older than it was. Everybody who was big enough and steady enough was going to get to hold it, cuddle it, gurgle to it, and say how pretty it was, or handsome.
Wouldn’t you have loved to be that baby?”
― Kurt Vonnegut, God Bless You, Dr. Kevorkian
And I just wrote this while listening to my wife talk to all her friends and family for an hour, overseas and local. One of my coworkers had to go back to Kenya for his mom’s funeral. He expected no less than 600 people to show out for a week long event, planned months in advance. Imagine that!
So when people on here are afraid of people I say, “You’re not enough people!”