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  • sparkles@piefed.ziptoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlWould you try a FOSS dating app?
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    16 hours ago

    Unlikely. I have always found dating sites pretty uncomfortable.

    Even in the best scenarios, there were never any people who shared my interests. Now I’m older/kinda exhausted of it. :3

    If I was younger and still trying, I imagine I would want something that felt less like being in a display case, visually. Maybe also making people who didn’t share any of my values or interests unable to swipe.




  • My ex-husband cheated on me for about 3 years. I noticed I was starting to get a lot of ads for dating sites at home, which was my first flag.

    We went rock climbing at his workplace and his female coworker didn’t recognize me/know of me and was all over him.

    Was in bed and saw bumble on his phone reflected off his glasses onto my phone screen when I stopped playing a game.

    He was, in general, an atrocious person. But being alone was a terrifying prospect at the time so I let it go on for longer than I should have. In the end it wasn’t the even cheating that caused me to leave.